Dialogue Discernment
One critical but rarely mentioned facet,
Of skills required for fine communication,
Is sensing when somebody makes it tacit,
That they would like to cease a conversation.
Eternal Incongruence
A parent’s basic instinct is to still
Maintain at least a modicum of sway.
A grown kid’s greatest impulse always will
Be wanting to do everything their way.
Reasons for Interruptions
Some interrupt for fear they’ll lose a thought,
While others lack routine impulse control.
They realize that isn’t what we’re taught,
But swear the cut-offs never are a goal.
More folks claim they’re just parts of conversations,
Or merely habits — but they all convey —
Apparent thought those blurted presentations,
Are more important than what you might say.
Russel Winick started writing poetry after ending a long legal career. He resides in Naperville, Illinois.
I love this stuff, Russel! I would love to have a wall calendar featuring your words of wisdom!
You’re very observant about the kinds of conversations people have, and I have no doubt that you are an excellent listener. So many people are inclined to interrupt; and I think you’re right that, often, the interrupter really does think that what he wants to say is more important than what others want to say. I also love your terse description of those who aren’t good enough listeners to know when someone else wants to end the conversation.
Let me know when you’re going to put that wall calendar on the market. 🙂
The “Discernment of Dialogue” end of conversation certainly is a skill husbands and wives must learn and possess. That may take some time. The “Eternal Incongruence” is something a skilled parent must know and make contingency plans. “Reasons for Interruptions” spoke to one of my pet peeves. The first two lines are discerning reasons why there are interruptions. The last one fits with anger and jealousy often resulting in a shouting match. You know how much I have appreciated your wit and wisdom over the years.